Visiting new places, whether in the US or elsewhere, as well as living in a small community opens my eyes to the breadth of creation. The recent photos of the earth and the words of the astronaut, Christina Koch, emphasized my understanding of an environment bigger than me, “a group bound by shared purpose, sacrifice, grace, and accountability, urging humanity to act as one.”
The words of Joyce Vance also help me feel positive each day. She always concludes her analyses with, “we’re in this together.” What happens anywhere has an impact on me.
At a recent writing workshop, the instructor made a casual comment that stuck with me. She said, “In life, you can’t do anything by yourself, not even eat.”
The idea provoked my thinking about how I might eat alone. Food, regardless of what it is was grown, harvested, and transported to me by others. I also recognize that my involvement in a community garden means that I am never alone in growing and harvesting the vegetables.
Recently I have had friends with health issues. They have required drivers for doctor appointments as well as the need for emotional support. I am glad to be able to help. I have also recognized how difficult it sometimes is to ask for help even though most all people want to be “helpers.” Fred Rogers’ famous “helper” statement always inspires me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping,” is so true.
I had shoulder surgery to repair a torn rotator cuff several years ago. I could not drive for three weeks. One of the feel-good moments of my life was when one of my neighbors remarked to me, “You sure have a lot of friends helping you out.” That statement was a profound compliment.
Aging literature suggests that social relationships are at the heart of healthy living. As more of an introvert than extrovert, I sometimes do not feel like being around others. I force myself to go to social events because I know it is good for me. I know, however, that this contact is essential to my longevity. I am fortunate to live in a community where I know people from various like-minded associations, and I embrace the idea that I cannot do anything by myself.
Absolutely!
Every bit true, even if you think “not me”…. Certainly be the helper, so when you need to ask, instead of resisting, remember how good it felt when YOU got to help someone else. 😊