The Unconditional Love of Mothers

I see my mom every time I look into a mirror. We resemble each other increasingly as I age. I think about my mom every day. Since she passed almost six years ago, she guides me from above.

Most children hold an extraordinary place in their hearts for their mothers. A mother’s love influences and shapes who we are. One of the profound reasons my mother, and most mothers, are special is because of unconditional love. From the moment I was born, my mother’s love provided comfort and security from childhood to the turbulent years of adolescence and beyond. Through her patience and sacrifice, my mother showed me how to care for others and navigate the complexities of life.

I am grateful for the almost 70 years that I had with mom. As true with most mother-daughter relationships, it was not always perfect. The older I got and the older she got, however, the more we appreciated each other. I realized the role model she represented. I am a better person from what I learned from her. I am also aware that she was not flawless, and I give myself grace in that regard as we all face our journeys by doing the best we can do.

Seeing the changes that came with the deteriorating health of my mom in her later years was not easy. Although I have loving images of my mother in her declining years, I most want to remember the times when she was vibrant and healthy.

Many of my friends no longer have their mothers in their physical lives. Other friends, however, are fortunate to continue to share themselves with an earthly mom. After my mom passed, my good friend Deb let me share her mom as my MOE—Mother on Earth. Unfortunately, this MOE passed several months ago. When I interact with any person who is old enough to be my mom, I look for the connection I might get from a MOE.

Although my mom is no longer here, her heavenly presence is a source of comfort. I wish I could tell her one more time about my deep gratitude and respect for her unconditional love.