I meet people in my life with whom I feel an immediate connection. These folks indicate a shared history and values. People who share common interests, values, or worldviews might be described as kindred spirits. These friends and acquaintances resonate with me because of the energy related to our common life experiences. We often share the same quirks, and sense of humor.
I feel at peace with kindred spirits. I know they understand me. For example, I feel kindred with other volunteers in the park because we are committed to facilitating great experiences for people in the park. People who love cats like I do are kindred spirits to me. Whenever I meet someone from Iowa, I feel a tie to a Midwestern upbringing.
I have experienced kinship ties with many people over the past 75 years. Time with these kindred spirits brings me in touch with what is important to me. In a sense, I see myself better when reflected in a kindred spirit. They also provide assurance to me that I am not alone as I pursue my passions and purpose. These relationships, sometimes fleeting and sometimes long-term, comfort me.
Sometimes I feel an immediate connection with someone. When I see that we share similar experiences such as being Iowa State alums or marathon runners, I know I am with my people. It feels like I know that person (at least a part of them) immediately. They “get” me.
I am particularly cognizant of kindred spirits as I navigate my fears about the directions of my country. Networks of like-minded people are necessary. Connection with kindred spirits is especially important to me this week. These relationships give me knowledge, courage, and commitment that can lead to potential change.
Kindred spirits are different from soul mates. Kindred spirits share common values as do soulmates. However, as I understand soulmates, they are intertwined with everyday life and have an ongoing influence. Connections with kindred spirits may be fleeting, and that makes them special.
I look forward to those moments when I feel kindred connections. As Charles Schultz suggested, “In life, it’s not where you go, it’s who you travel with.”
Perfect!